For most high school seniors, the question of what your plan is after high school is to be expected. With graduation around the corner, you’ve probably spent a considerable amount of time thinking about your future options and goals. If you’ve found yourself in an unexpected pregnancy situation during this time, these options might look a bit different, or your timeline may shift more than you may have expected. If you decide to apply and enroll in college, the process can be confusing at times but know that pregnancy does not have to mean the end of your education journey.
Why Applying to College Matters
We know college isn’t for everyone, and you should always follow your dreams, but we do believe that college opens doors for many people. For many, it’s a stepping stone to their dream career, but don’t reduce college to just a career-ready program. College isn’t just about hitting the books; it’s about discovering who you are, building valuable skills, and meeting lifelong friends. College will broaden your perspective, make your world larger, and give you lifelong memories you will cherish.
Pregnancy and College
Not every student looks the same and has the same needs. If you are pregnant or parenting, college is still an option for you! There are plenty of college options that provide flexible learning experiences for students. Consider an online education or a community college in your local area. Or look into traditional undergrad degrees at colleges or universities that offer programs or tuition assistance for parenting students. For example, The University of Mary in North Dakota offers free room and board for single women who are parenting and in school. In addition to knowing which colleges can accommodate your situation, it is also important to know that as a pregnant or parenting student, you are entitled to specific protected rights under Title IX. Title IX protects students from unfair discrimination on the basis of sex, age, disability, and circumstance. If you have questions on the accommodations that are available to pregnant students, reach out to your school counselor, college counselor, or a staff member at Center for Women Jackson.
Getting Started with College Applications
When to Start Applying
Timing is everything. The key to applying for colleges is to start early. Ideally, begin researching colleges and their deadlines during your junior year. This gives you ample time to prepare for standardized tests, gather recommendation letters, and craft compelling essays. Early applications usually open in September, while regular deadlines fall between January and March. Make a calendar of important dates to keep track!
Gathering Recommendation Letters
Recommendations provide insight into your character and work ethic. Choose teachers or mentors who know you well and can vouch for your abilities. Give them plenty of notice—at least a month—before the deadline. Provide them with a resume or a list of accomplishments to help them write a detailed letter. A heartfelt, well-written recommendation can make a big difference in your application.
Choosing the Right College for You
Factors to Consider
Finding the right college is like finding the perfect pair of shoes—it needs to fit just right! Consider factors like location, size, campus culture, and programs offered. Some important questions to ask yourself are:
- Do I prefer a large university in a big city, or would I benefit from a small college in a quiet town?
- Are there extracurriculars that I would want to participate in during college?
- How far away do I want to be from my family and hometown?
- What internship or career opportunities are available to me at this university?
Visit campuses if possible, talk to current students, and attend virtual tours. Trust your instincts.
Specialized Programs and Majors
Do you have a clear career path in mind already? If so, look for colleges with strong programs in your field of interest. Whether it’s engineering, arts, business, or science, ensure the college offers majors and minors that align with your passions. If you are unsure, no worries! The majority of college students enter college with one major, and graduate with a completely different one! Because of this, it might be beneficial to pick a college that offers a lot of different majors that you can float between throughout your time in undergrad.
Tuition Assistance and Financial Aid
Understanding Tuition Costs
College tuition varies widely depending on factors like location, public vs. private, and program intensity. Beyond tuition, remember to factor in costs like housing, meals, textbooks, and transportation. Understanding the total cost of attendance helps you plan better. Most colleges provide calculators on their websites to estimate costs based on your unique circumstances.
Applying for FAFSA
FAFSA, or the Free Application for Federal Student Aid, is your ticket to financial assistance. Filling it out early increases your chances of receiving aid. Gather necessary documents like tax returns and social security numbers beforehand. The FAFSA determines your eligibility for federal grants, loans, and work-study programs. It’s a crucial step in making college affordable.
Exploring Scholarships and Grants
Scholarships and grants are like free money—they don’t need to be repaid! Search for scholarships offered by colleges, private organizations, and community groups. Use platforms like Fastweb and Scholarships.com to find opportunities tailored to your achievements and interests. Also, check if your chosen colleges offer merit-based or need-based grants. Every little bit helps!
Your College Journey
Applying for college can be overwhelming, but it’s also an exciting opportunity to shape your future. Start early, research thoroughly, and stay organized. Remember that college is not just about academics; it’s about finding out more about yourself, making lasting connections, and exploring future careers.
And if you’re feeling overwhelmed or need further guidance, don’t hesitate to reach out to your school counselors or mentors. They’re here to help you succeed. Whether you’re applying to a local community college or an Ivy League university, remember that the right college is the one that aligns with your goals and values.
If you are pregnant or parenting and need help in your college journey, Center for Women Jackson is here to help you. We never want you to feel as though your pregnancy has to stop you from accomplishing your dreams. Reach out to talk to someone about your specific situation and see what pregnancy options are available to you.